DREAM BIG

Do you have a desire or goal that you have held for endless days, months or even years? Does it seem to elude you even though you have programmed and envisioned it? You have seen the beautiful end result in your mind, but still nothing seems to happen. Perhaps you have prayed for that change but there is no discernable movement.

It is not important what it is that you want. It might be a better job, a new love interest, increased health, reconnecting with family. What is important is that nothing seems to be happening. You know exactly what you want, but you are not seeing it appear in your life. What is the answer? How can you make the changes you desire?

There can be numerous reasons which keep you from the manifestation of your personal dream or goal. The timing might be at odds with the universe, making the result inappropriate now. Or, acting on that desire might hurt someone who is directly concerned with the results. The list of reasons for failing to create the desire goes on and on. What I want to suggest however is something you may not have considered.

To bring about significant change, you always need to be sufficiently motivated. In other words, your dream needs to be big enough to capture your heart and imagination. It needs to be dynamic enough to bring forth your own extraordinary inspiration and effort. When you are only wishing for a change, it is just too lukewarm to create.

Too often, people tend to go after just what they think will help them “get by”. They take aim at "surviving" not "thriving". They are settling not for what they actually want but what they think they can have. To create, a person needs to desire real success, exciting improvement. It is not unusual for some people to try to bring about a situation or change that is only what their friends or family have indicated would be “right” for them. That too is usually nonproductive simply because there is no heartfelt urge or inner conviction driving the effort.

I remember when I was still in school, a friend of mine, Rawly, was a member of the Civil Air Patrol. He loved his work with the group and was learning to be a pilot. Still, he was not completely happy. He told me his problem was that he always set is goals too low! The result, he said, was that almost daily, he had to come up with a new set of goals. Perhaps he needed to dream bigger!

If you study the history of those people who have succeeded with great flair, those who have made important contributions to our nation and our world, you will see people of truly large dreams. You will see people who went beyond the bounds of what was known and created something new. In many cases, their success seemed to have little to do with their formal education, wealth, or age. Case in point is Kentucky Colonel Sanders making a fortune in fried chicken in his 80’s.

It is not necessary for you to desire some kind of national or international fame to be a tremendous success with your own life. Although that fame is certainly possible. All that is actually required is that you believe in your possibilities and dream your own big dream.

Look at your wants and desires. Are all of them your very own or do they still carry the imprint the ideas of others --- a mother, father, friend, business associate? Keep your dream uniquely yours. A big personal dream has momentum. It pushes forward with a larger load of possibilities. There is no vacillating with a big dream. It shoots for the sky, the ultimate. A big dream inspires us to dig deep and pull out all sorts of innovative ideas and hidden talents.

When you dare to dream big, big results are guaranteed. Do not let yourself fall in to mediocrity. Know in your heart that you can and you will realize your important dream. You are special, valuable and unique. You came to this earth to shine, to be all that you can be. I believe that your individuality is of great importance. I want you to succeed.

If I can help you with a private counseling session, please call me for an appointment. Sometimes it is only a bit of a turn to the right or the left that can put you on the path to your highest inspiration and goal. There is no question too difficult or no subject off limits. I want you to live your life fully.

Arrangements can be made for psychic, intuitive, trance counseling by phone, e-mail or in- person in my home. I am Reverend Lois, (479) 657-6491, Bella Vista, Arkansas.